Soul to Soul: How to Find the Love of Your Life

There are 110.6 million unmarried people over the age of 18 in the United States, according to a study by the Observer. That’s 45.2 percent of adults living in America today, making almost half of American adults single. If you’re feeling like the only single person left, you’re very wrong.

Still, the question remains on how to find the love of your life. You might be done with simple and shallow relationships and are looking to find something that is finally serious.

It’s not as impossible as it might seem, and taking steps to get there can help you get in the right mindset for when it happens. Keep reading to learn how to find your true love.

Look Internally

The first place to look is inside. It may seem like a cliché, but you cannot love someone else before you love yourself.

If you have misgivings about you or your life, focus on that and discover what it is that bothers you. This could be as simple as journaling or meditating, or perhaps even visiting a therapist.

You also need to discover what you like about yourself and what you like about your life. If you know exactly what you want out of life, it will be a lot easier to find someone that shares those values with you.

Don’t fake it to try to impress someone. The only person you need to impress is yourself, and if you like what you’re doing and who you are, you will attract that same energy. Being your best self is the basis of a great relationship.

If you want to be with someone who cares about being healthy and in shape, then you should put in the work too. Stay positive and know that you can make you happy. You don’t need anyone, but if you know what you want, your love will find you.

Search the Internet

A great way to find new love, especially post-pandemic, is using online services. With the advance of technology, there are so many new ways to meet people. 

Online services allow you to talk to people and get to know them in ways that would be different than in-person interactions. It can also take away the anxiety of having to socialize with new people.

Online dating sites are a smart way to start. There are specialized sites that you can find that similar people will be drawn to, whether it be religion or even career-based. You can connect with people already knowing you have something in common. However, there are also generalized sites, which allow you to connect with a wide variety of people.

Another way to connect is through dating apps, which are different from sites. Though they have a reputation for being used mostly for quick hookups rather than long term relationships, many couples have met and had successful relationships through apps. Keeping an open mind is essential when searching for love in any aspect. 

Ask for Help

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. You can ask your friends for suggestions, either going on blind dates or just meeting new people they think you would get along with. Sometimes friendships can blossom into the best relationships, so it doesn’t have to start out fully bloomed.

As stated before, therapy is a great way to look inward and see what you want. A good therapist can tell you what you’re looking for, which can narrow who you decide to interact with. If you know you want a long-term relationship right now, you’ll probably avoid randomly meeting people at bars.

One of the oldest and more classic ways of finding true love is through an online tarot reading. Like a therapist, tarot readings can tell you what you want, and it can guide you to find others that might feel the same. It’s a great tool to apply to all of your love finding pursuits. 

Visit New Places 

Finding new events, places, or hobbies can put you in space with different people you might not have ever met otherwise. It’s great particularly if you find a hobby, like pottery or dancing, that you really enjoy. You can bond through the hobby first, and maybe you’ll become great friends, or maybe it has the potential to blossom into something deeper.

Don’t be afraid to attend a concert you never thought you would, visit a beer garden that you never have, or go to a sporting event. As long as you like what you’re doing, you know you’ll enjoy the experience despite meeting anyone else.

This will put you in a situation where you’re able to be surrounded by new people who are enjoying the same thing as you, which not only gives you something to talk about – but also leads to doing other things together that you’ll both enjoy. 

How to Find the Love of YOUR Life

There is no one answer to “how to find the love of your life.” However, if you’ve been struggling with being single for a while, or perhaps you recently broke up with someone, the biggest key to finding true love is keeping your mind open, being optimistic, and putting yourself in a position that is open to possibilities.

Keep in mind that finding your true love should be fun for you, and it’s always a growth opportunity. Work on you, have fun doing what you love, and you’ll attract the same energy back. Soon, you’ll have the love of your life in your arms forever! Keep reading through more of our articles for all your lifestyle needs.